Hens Parties - Have your cake and eat it too!

about secret womens business

Before I stared Secret Women’s Business, I had been working as an event manager for many years and had planned a million hens parties in that time.  Once upon a time, all hens parties were pretty much ran to a very similar formula.  The dick straws, the pink veil, the sashes, the very unattractive stripper…  The problem with this formula is that although it may have appealed to some, watching old Aunty Jan hump a strippers crotch can often have negative repercussions!

Since starting Secret Women’s Business, we have noticed a decline in these types of events. Although we wholeheartedly encourage the more risqué Hens, it does seem that the vast majority are leaning towards the more sophisticated options.  We are not sure if that’s just our clientele or if bridesmaids are becoming more cautious about offending the bride and the family members attending.

We feel that the trick is to not try and please the entire group.  There are ways and means to have your cake and eat it to!  With most hens there are two sides of the wedding going to attend: the bride and all her friends and family, then from the groom side its mainly just his family.  Although the brides friends all want to see her peel a g-string from an oiled up stripper with her teeth, the in laws might not be so exuberant!

We recommend hosting a combined event that has a little of everything with a high tea to start with followed by the pointy end of stick later on.  Those who are not up for the more naughty side of the night can check out after the high tea and leave the shenanigans to the party girls. Check out this example, we can make this happen and make sure that everyone is getting what they want, especially the bride, with minimal repercussions.


high tea hens party

High Tea 4.30 – 6.30pm

  • Sweet and savoury treats, champagne on arrival and a selection of teas
  • Massages from our Massage Angels
  • Manicures
  • Lots of fun, cheeky hens games (still in-law friendly)

hens party topless waiter

Ladies Who Lust package 6.30 – 9.30pm

  • Best male stripper in Melbourne
  • Very sexy topless waiter/s
  • 3 hour all inclusive beverage package
  • Gourmet canapés package

Finishing up at Circus Bar and Nightclub

  • Free entry
  • Cocktail jug
  • Free round of shots on arrival

Contact us for more details and to get a quote for your group size…